Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Safe Internet Dating

So in this post I will try clarify how and where one can find and correspond safely with a Slavic lady online!

Any one that has tried meeting some one on line ,probably has a story or two to tell ,about either a scam ,scam attempt or deciept!

As most, I started out seeking my soul mate on a few of those wonderful free sites! As I did have success in meeting a few new ladies this way, I still encountered the issues I originally started with! I did not meet any near by ladies that possessed those old school standards I seek! And of the ones I did meet in live, most ,to be polite, embelished quite a bit about themselves. A few were out right decieptful! Using 10-15 year old photos,incorrect info in profiles, etc. The sites with live chat features did help one get a little better idea of the person.

The free sites are a feeding ground for scams and deciept though! There are no guarantees and little protection ,that you are actually corresponding with the person you think you are! It is desireable if you can get her to correspond via personal emails and im's. If they do meet you to correspond on your private im,insist on a live cam also! If they refuse to go on cam or say they don't have it available, be suspitious! If she can't afford it she should be willing to give a mailing address where you can send her the 20-30$cam off Ebay!!This will be much cheaper than the plane ticket you may get scammed out of ! Or the cam site she talks you into joining for free! Read the terms and conditions carefully guys!!! If a lady asks you to join a cam site to see her live, it aint gonna be free!!! The scammers and decietful ones have a lot of time as this is their proffession or objective! So if you don't mind wasting a lot of your time ,wadeing through scams and deciept to find your love, these are the sites for you! Not to mention a few awkward meetings with a lady that may have emellished on her profile . Hopefully you don't fall for the scam attempts also! Then the free site aint so free!

The moral of the story I guess is that ,more often than not,you get what you pay for! If you expect fast painfree results on a free site, I wish you a lot of luck!
Maybe also look at free sites another way. The people using them may also be broke or just cheap! Most people on these sites are also overly expectatious in there desires! The real and honest ones you may meet there, will probably have very many others seeking their attention! Thus you better be a little more than average in many ways to impress one!!

So with all that said and one decides to join a paid site! Do your home work before joining a site! Ask some friends if they know of a good site. Ask if they know of people that have had good success meeting their love there! If you don't find a friends advice then use this big internet to gain your info! Always seek an unbiased opinion! I am a person some what familiar with Internet marketing. So if you just Google it, be warned .Here's a few tips; Say you Google ' Joeblows date site scam" Odds are extremely good that you will read a few of the reviews on the first few pages displayed on Google. If you understand Google a little ,you will know that the first few pages of a search on Google , go to the highest bidder or best marketers! Thus the site you are investigating probably holds most of the adds on the first few pages of the search! Most scam reports are written by the very same people you are researching! It will become quite obvious as you read the reports and you see the site you are investigating, has wonderfull reviews and comes highly recomended! The best and most reliable info will come from articles and blogs.

As I have mentioned, I am some what familiar with Internet marketing and as you may have noticed there are some adds on my blog! The actual banner adds or links I post ,are ones I have placed here! The Google adds are random by Google! So yes I may earn a few cents if you click on one of the adds by Google and Yes! I may earn a few credits or a commission if you chose to join a site I have a banner or link for! I spend a lot of my time working on my blog and it is nice to earn a little from it also! I just hope my information is helpfull to those who read.

I plan to continue this blog indefinately. I have found my future wife, she is from Ukraine! She's that beautiful lady Anna I introduced at the top of the page! I hope I can help any one out there to also find the happiness I have found. I will use this blog to assist you with such things as cultural differences, language issues, what a man can expect when choosing a Slavic lady, What one can expect for expences when choosing a foriegn bride and the process of getting her here with you.

I didn't have a chance this post ,to explain the ways some of the paid sites make it safer than free sites. I will explain this in my next post.

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